When people make resolutions, they focus on things they need to change about themselves, because we are made to feel as if we aren’t enough. We are told that we’re the ones that need to change, not others. Perhaps we don’t always have to focus on changing ourselves. When we also look at other influences, we notice that when we alter the things around us, we also shift. If you aren’t happy with where you live, your job, or a relationship with a friend or significant other, then…